Pastor Sherry’s message for May 12, 2024
Scriptures: Acts 1:15-26; Ps 1; 1 John 5:9-13; John 17:6-19
Happy Mother’s Day to all of our mothers! “Former president Jimmy Carter spoke at Southern Methodist University and related an incident that occurred after he left the White House. A woman reporter came to Plains, Georgia, to interview his mother [Lillian Carter] in relation to an article about Mr. Carter and his family. His mother really didn’t want to be interviewed but was being gracious. So when the reporter knocked at her door, Mrs. Carter invited her in. The reporter asked some hard questions and actually was rather aggressive and rude.
“I want to ask you a question,” she said. “Your son ran for the presidency on the premise that he would always tell the truth. Has he ever lied?”
Mrs. Carter said, “I think he’s truthful; I think you can depend on his word.”
The reporter again asked if he had ever lied in his entire life.
His mother said, “Well, I guess maybe he’s told a little white lie.”
“Ah, see there!” the reporter exclaimed. “He’s lied! If he told a white lie, he has lied.”
The reporter was still not satisfied and asked, “What is a white lie?” And then Lillian Carter said, “It’s like a moment ago when you knocked on the door and I went to the door and said I was glad to see you.””
(Brett Blair, http://www.eSermons.com. Adapted from an unknown source.)
Isn’t that just a great story? Former President Carter’s mother was honest, but also protective of him. Ms. Lillian was a true southern lady: she was neither rude nor unkind, but she still conveyed her distain for the pushy reporter. We hope for this from our mothers, don’t we? They are very well aware of our failings and foibles, but–because of their love for us– they would never admit these to an “outsider.
I think this is the attitude of Jesus in today’s Gospel reading (John 17:6-19). Jesus is headed to the Cross and so He prays over His disciples to His Father. He knew He would be leaving them shortly, due to His imminent death, so He was asking His Father to protect them. He reminds God that He did not lose anyone the Father had placed into His hands [anyone who believed in Him]. He had kept His disciples safe, all except for Judas, His betrayer. By his choice, Judas rejected Jesus, then (due to guilt, shame, and despair) took his own life. Jesus refers to Judas as (v.12) the one doomed to destruction so that Scripture would be fulfilled. How sad for Jesus to know, the whole time He and Judas were developing a relationship, that Judas would betray Him.
Notice, Jesus is not praying for the world here, but rather about the 11 He had spent 3 years training (plus all of us who have believed in Him down through the ages). He is headed to the Cross but He is praying for us.
What a gift to have Jesus pray to the Father for us! He is still doing this to this day. He sits at the right hand of the Father in heaven and intercedes for us daily. What a gift to us if our mother and father prayed for us daily! I remember reading some books back in the early 1990’s by a woman named Stormie Ormartian. She wrote The Power of a Praying Wife, and The Power of a Praying Mother. In the latter book, she prayed for the spouses of her newborn children, from their birth until they eventually married. She saw her children joined to godly spouses due to her long term prayers. What a gift to our children and grandchildren if we pray for them daily!
Additionally, Jesus asks His Father not to remove us from the world—even though we, like Him, don’t belong to this world–but rather to keep us safe from the evil one. He prayed for our protection. President Carter’s mother, Lillian, in a Christ-like way, was trying to keep her son’s reputation safe from an antagonistic reporter.
Our Lord—and our mothers—want us to withstand the seduction of the evil one and make wise choices for our lives.
In Psalm 1, our Lord spells out the biggest most profound decision we will ever make: to choose to be follow God or to reject God. The psalmist couches this choice as that between godliness/righteousness and that of ungodliness/wickedness. Do we choose the way of sinners or the way of those who love and obey God? Proverbs 1:7 reminds us that—the fear of [awe, reverence for] the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline. Choosing to revere our God is the wise choice. Choosing to reject our God is foolish. Those are the two choices before us.
The psalmist goes on to assert that the person who chooses to follow God is blessed or experiences true happiness. This blessed person resists becoming ungodly: The blessed person resists listening to the advice of the ungodly, such as, “Go ahead, seek revenge;” or “Hey, steal what you want…no one is looking, and even if they catch you, you won’t serve any time.;” or “You deserve love, even if it means cheating on your spouse, abandoning your children, etc.” The blessed person resists hanging out with sinners. We might befriend them so as to lead them to Jesus. But if we linger with them too long, they begin to win us over to their way of thinking and of living. The blessed person resists joining in with mockers or atheists. Atheists don’t just deny God’s existence, love, or power. They are more dangerous than this; they are actually antagonistic to God.
The blessed person, instead, meditates on God’s Word, written and in the flesh (Jesus). This is where he/she derives guidance to live a godly life. Such persons are fruitful, productive, lively, thriving. The ungodly, by contrast, live meaningless lives. They do not impact others for good, and in the end, are blown away like chaff by the wind.
The psalmist concludes by stating, For the Lord watches over the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked will perish. This is consistent with Jesus’ prayer of John 17:6-19, isn’t it? Jesus prays for those of us who love Him that the Father will protect us from the evil one.
The Apostle John, writes in his first letter (1 John 5:9-13), He [or she] who has the Son has life; he [or she] who does not have the Son of God does not have life. It’s the same choice as that in our psalm, isn’t it? If Christ dwells in us—due to our faith, due to our having chosen to follow Jesus, due to our being born again—we are wise, godly, and blessed.
If not, we are foolish and, as Scripture calls it, wicked.
The disciples were attempting to comply with this in their choice of a successor to Judas (Acts 1:15-26). You see, in the Hebrew way of thinking, 12 is the number of completion; eleven is therefore incomplete. They looked for other followers of Jesus worthy of being the 12th man on the leadership team. Texas A&M Aggies football fans who attend the games in their home stadium call themselves “the 12th man.” There are 11 players on the field forming their team, but the fans in the stands make the 12th.
Peter, the other 10, and 109 or so other followers of Jesus are in the “Upper Room,” waiting on the impartation of the Holy Spirit (Pentecost—remember, next week, wear red, the color of fire and of the Holy Spirit), and develop criteria for the 12th man: (1) He had to be someone who had followed Jesus from the beginning of His public ministry; and (2) He had to be someone who like them had witnessed and believed in the Resurrected Christ. They came up with two names, Joseph Barsabbas (also called Justus) and Matthias. They drew lots and discerned that Matthias was God’s choice. The Holy Spirit made the decision. It was not based on human favoritism or bias. The disciples looked for and ratified God’s choice. They trusted in God to make the final decision.
When we trust in God, we communicate with Him, and we obey, in faith, what we discern He says to us. This is wisdom. I once served on a call committee for my church. We had narrowed down the candidates for our new pastor to two men. We make our decisions by unanimous vote, assuming that if the Holy Spirit were leading us, we would all agree. The vote was locked up for 3 meetings, 11 for one fellow, and 1 for the other. People got angry at the lone hold-out, who was me (this happened before I left for Seminary). They wanted to vote to change the unanimous agreement requirement so they could vote in the fellow they all liked. I reminded them that such a vote would require 100% agreement and I would not cooperate in changing the rules until after this pastor decision had been made. Someone asked me if I would consider voting by lots. I agreed because I had faith that God’s will would prevail. Someone else put 12 purple-wrapped candies in a basket along with 12 gold-wrapped candies. No one could see what we were choosing because the basket of candies was passed over our heads. As God would have it, all 12 of us picked the color designated for the guy for whom I had held out. We were all blown away! We did call that pastor and he lead us into a deeper faith and a deeper knowledge of Scripture. He was a blessing to our church. People who operate this way are blessed.
In honor of Mother’s Day, I want to share a Biblical example of a Godly woman, Abigail. We find her story in 1 Samuel 25:1-44. She is described as both (v.3) beautiful and intelligent. But, she was married to a harsh and mean-spirited man, Nabol (his name in the Hebrew actually means fool). Nabol was wealthy, owning 1,000 goats and 3,000 sheep, but he was also selfish and greedy. David had been anointed king but was being chased about the wilderness by the jealous King Saul. David sent emissaries to Nabol to ask for food from his flocks to feed his growing army and his followers. He reminded Nabol that his men had protected Nabol’s flocks from both human and animal predators. Nabol’s response was arrogant, inhospitable, and dangerous (vv.10-11)—Who is this David? Who is this son of Jesse? Many servants are breaking away from their masters these days. Why should I take my bread and water, and the meat I have slaughtered for my shearers, and give it to men coming from who knows where?
YIKES! Is this the way this fool insults his future king? David hears the report from his delegation and is steamed! He assembles 400 soldiers and lights out to set Nabol straight. He has vengeance on his mind.
Abigail hears from a servant that Nabol has offended the future king. She wisely knows she needs to remedy this or her foolish husband is toast. She gathers several donkeys’ loads of food and wine and heads to intercept David and his men. She falls at David’s feet, amazingly accepts the blame for her husband’s foolish actions, and offers the hospitality her husband should have provided. Furthermore, she urges David not to sully his reputation by taking revenge against Nabol. David commends her for her grace, wisdom, and generosity, and accepts her gift of provisions. But God takes Nabol’s life 10 days later. David doesn’t kill him but God protects His anointed. David then proposes to Nabol’s widow and Abigail becomes the wife of the future king.
Can we aim to be like this? Righteous, wise, godly, like Abigail? Or will we be foolishly reckless and contemptuous, like Nabol? Let us pray that we each make the right choice, the wise choice. Amen!
©️2024 Rev. Dr. Sherry Adams


