Pastor Sherry’s message for September 27, 2026
Scriptures: Ex 17:1-7; Ps 78:1-4, 12-16; Phil 2:1-13; Matt 21:23-32
There are moments in every parents’ life when we wonder if our kids ever listen to us. Can you remember taking your young child to a funeral, after having explained to them the proper way to behave at such an occasion?
Consider this true story:
“I am attending my great-uncle’s funeral. As his casket is being lowered into the ground, I notice that all his grandchildren are smiling far too much for such a solemn occasion.
Parent: “Why are you boys grinning?”
Grandson #1: “We’re not.”
Parent: “You absolutely are.”
Before anyone can question them further, thick red, yellow, and orange smoke starts pouring out from underneath the casket.
Priest: “What is that?!”
Family Member: “Is the casket on fire?”
Grandson #2: “No!”
Parent: “How do you know?”
The smoke becomes so thick that everyone has to step away from the grave. Then, from somewhere nearby, a boombox starts blasting “Highway To Hell.”
Everyone turns toward my great-uncle’s three grandsons.
Parent: “WHAT DID YOU DO?!”
Grandson #3: “It wasn’t our idea!”
Parent: “You have exactly five seconds to explain yourselves!”
Before their parents can tear them apart, the fourth and oldest grandchild takes out an iPad.
Oldest Grandchild: “Wait! Great-Uncle [Norton] left a message.”
He plays a video recorded from my great-uncle’s hospital bed about a week before he died.
Great-Uncle: “Hello, everyone. If you’re watching this, the smoke bombs went off, the music started, and my grandsons followed my instructions perfectly.”
The three boys beam proudly.
Great-Uncle: “Don’t blame them. I planned the whole thing. I wanted one final great prank—and one last chance to make my children clutch their pearls.”
The family goes from furious to laughing, and the grandsons escape punishment. Their parents calm down pretty fast. But the poor priest, however, takes a little longer.”
(“One H*** of a Funeral,” www.notalwaysright.com, 9/18/26)
This is the kind of situation that, while funny, makes you wonder about the great uncle! The 4 boys listened to the deceased, doing as he directed…but clearly ignored all parental directions on how to behave at funerals.
In our Gospel lesson today, Matthew 21:23-32, Jesus tells a parable concerning obedience. The context is yet another confrontation with some Jewish religious leaders. They ask Him about His authority to teach, preach, heal, and forgive sins as He does. But it’s a set-up, which He rightly discerns. They are hoping to catch Him saying His authority comes from the fact that He is God so they can charge Him with blasphemy and have Him executed. But Jesus brilliantly turns the tables on them. He agrees to answer their question (actually their demand) if they first answer His (They are testing Him). Staying with the issue they have raised regarding authority, He asks them Who commissioned John the Baptist. If they say John prophesied by God’s authority, then Jesus can ask them why they mocked John and did not believe him. And if they insist John was a fraud, they know the people–who loved John and considered him a prophet–would condemn them. So they fail to commit to either option. Thus Jesus can then say (v.27)-→Then I won’t tell you by what authority I do these things. Really, He is saying, “Well, you wouldn’t answer My question, so I will not answer yours.” Then He goes on to reprimand them through a parable.
This is the Parable of the Two Sons: The Father makes a request. The first son refuses initially, then goes and does what his father asked him to do (No, then Yes). The 2nd son agrees initially, then blows dad off (Yes, then No). Jesus then asks (v.31)-→Which of the two obeyed his father? They rightly answer the first. Then before all the listening crowd, Jesus exposes and condemns the religious rulers. This is not our usual Jesus, meek, mild, humble. This is an angry Jesus, a disappointed Christ. The very ones who should have recognized Him have not. Instead of teaching the people to be loving and to share that love with those who don’t know the Sovereign Lord of Israel, the Jewish religious leadership have become rule-bound, negative, unloving, judgmental. They are like the 2nd son, originally saying Yes to God, but then going their own way, saying No. This is why Jesus insults them by saying notorious sinners like tax collectors and prostitutes—who they abhorred and shunned—will enter the Kingdom of God before they will. It’s true that notorious sinners repented due to John the Baptist’s teaching; but these leaders remained skeptical and unbelieving. Did they hear Jesus? My guess is that they said Yes to serving God originally, but then lived out No. They heard and saw Jesus but rejected Him and His teaching.
Sadly, Jesus knew where their stiff necks would lead them (to Hell), and Him (to the Cross).
In some ways, these hard-hearted religious leaders are a lot like their ancestors in the wilderness wanderings. In our Exodus 17:1-7 reading the people find themselves at Rephidim, where there is no water.
Once again, they complain bitterly to Moses and Aaron. Once again, they fail to believe that God both accompanied them and would care for them. So many miracles later, they still lack faith. They are demanding that God prove to them that He is their provider (just as the religious rulers demanded proof from Jesus).
We can ask for a sign based on faith (Mark 9:24): I do believe, but help me overcome my unbelief. But our Lord detests a test based on doubt (John 6:30)-→They answered, “Show us a miraculous sign if you want us to believe in You. What can You do? (like Jesus is a trained seal or a bear).
It’s tantamount to saying, “I think God should prove Himself to me.”
“A test based on doubt makes us the judge and God the defendant”—which is wrong (NLT study notes, p.101).
Nevertheless, God, in His infinite grace, tells Moses how to locate water for them. Moses is told to strike the rock at Mt. Sinai with his staff. We know Jesus is the rock of our salvation. St. Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 10:1-4-→I don’t want you to forget, dear brothers and sisters, about our ancestors in the wilderness long ago. All of them were guided by a cloud that moved ahead of them, and all of them walked through the sea on dry ground….All of them ate the same spiritual food, and all of them drank the same spiritual water. For they drank from the spiritual rock that traveled with them, and that rock was Christ. J. Vernon McGee states that, “The smitten rock is a picture of the death of Christ.”
(McGee, Through the Bible Commentary on Exodus, Thomas Nelson, 19091, p.154).
This is why Moses could not later enter the Promised Land: In anger, he struck the rock again instead of simply speaking to it (Christ cannot be re-sacrificed.) The people tested God (Massah) and quarreled with Moses (Meribah)-→These place names memorialized their lack of faith.
Psalm 78:1-4, 12-16 reviews these events. The psalmist, Asaph, encourages us not to be faithless, but to remember His miracles, and trust that God is faithful. Remembering His faithfulness can strengthen our faith and lead us to obey Him. In light of this psalm, those religious leaders who challenged Jesus should have been prostrate before Him in worship. They should have been awe-struck and humble, rather than arrogant and dismissive.
St. Paul directs us, in Philippians 2:1-13, to have the mind of Christ.
The mind of Christ is humble. Think about it: From what do most quarrels arise?
The quarreling parties each assume they are right. Humility requires that we each consider we could be wrong. Paul is setting out a pattern for Christian living (v.2)-→Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose. He wants us to avoid being selfish, focusing only on what we want. He wants us to consider others and their needs even before our own. This is what it is to be unselfish, to be “un-self-centered,” to be Christlike. The Jewish religious leaders who confronted Jesus were convinced they knew what was right. Time and again, Jesus did or said something that challenged their ways of thinking and of being. They had said Yes to God and became His priests and religious teachers, but they said No to God’s son. They lost out on a deeper relationship with the Great Shepherd, the King of the Universe, because they were not humble. They physically heard Jesus, but intellectually they tuned Him out—Poor Souls!
I began today with a story about some kids at a funeral. I want to end with another such tale:
A fellow named Jim Lyons shared: “ A very close friend of ours, Bob, had passed away and we took our eight-year-old son to the gravesite service. He was in awe the entire time. After lowering the casket, Bob’s grandchildren gave each person a golf ball. Bob was an avid golfer and his widow decided to drop golf balls into the grave instead of flowers [or dirt]. Everyone smiled and joked. When we finished dropping the balls, our son, speaking in his outside voice had everyone laughing when he said, “Mom, it’s a good thing your friend wasn’t a bowler.”
(Juliana LaBianca, ReadersDigestHumor.com, 08/24)
No wonder Jesus said, in Matthew 18:3-4-→Then He said, “I tell you the truth, unless you turn from your sins and become like little children, you will never get into the Kingdom of Heaven. So anyone who becomes as humble as this little child is the greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven.
Let us pray: Dear Lord, help us to be humble, to have the mind of Jesus.
Help us to abandon our selfishness and our arrogant assumptions that we are always right, and lovingly look to the needs of others. Teach us to truly hear You and to obey You. AMEN!
©️2026 Rev. Dr. Sherry Adams



