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In whom Do We Trust and Love?

Pastor Sherry’s message for December 18, 2025

Scriptures: Isaiah 7:10-16 ; Matthew 1:18-25

A story dating from the 1930’s or 1940’s is told of a British man rushing to catch a train.  He and his friends needed to make it aboard this particular train or face waiting a long time until the next, which would put them arriving at their destination in the wee hours of the morning.  As he and his friends ran through the station, he accidentally kicked over a small table supporting a vendor’s box of fruit.  Apples tumbled out all over.  The guy and his friends made it to the train with seconds to spare.  As he looked back at the mess they had made, he wondered if he should risk returning to help and miss his train.  Waving his friends on, he decided to turn back to assist the vendor.  He noticed apples everywhere, kicked here and there by hurrying travelers.  He saw a boy of about 9-10, looking dazed and helpless, but doing nothing whatever to retrieve the apples.  

As he got closer, he realized the boy, the vendor, was blind.  The man began to collect the apples and place them in the box.  He could see that many of them were by now badly bruised.  So, he took out his wallet, and handed the boy a twenty.  As he placed the bill in the boy’s hand, he said, “Here, please take this $20.00 for the damage we did.  Hope we haven’t spoiled your day.”  As the man walked away, he heard the boy loudly call to him, saying, “Sir, are you Jesus?”  (Story origin unknown.)

This boy obviously had some notion of who Jesus was and how He might be expected to act.  He thought the man might be Jesus because of his kindness and generosity toward him.  He thought the man might be Jesus because he hadn’t just ignored him, but had made things right.  The man wasn’t Jesus, but he had acted like Jesus, hadn’t he?  He’d righted a wrong.  He had provided for the boy when no one else did.  He was trustworthy and grace-filled.

Our Old Testament and our Gospel lessons point to the fact that our God is worthy of our trust (and our love).  

A.  The context for Isaiah 7:10-16 is the year 734 BC.  King Ahaz of Judah is surrounded by enemies threatening to invade his kingdom:  Rezer, king of Syria and Pekah, king of Israel, have formed a coalition against Ahaz.  So Ahaz is considering aligning himself with either Egypt or with Assyria for safety.

What do we know of Ahaz?  He was a descendant of King David,  a grandson of Uzziah, and son of Jothem, both of whom had been good kings.  He’dbeen 20YO when he ascended the throne and reigned for 16 years.  Unlike his father and grandfather, however, he was a man without faith in the one, true God.  It had been recounted in 2 Kings 16:3-4–>Unlike David his father, he did not do what was right in the eyes of the Lord his God.  He walked in the ways of the kings of Israel and even sacrificed his son in the fire, following the detestable ways of the nations the Lord had driven out before the Israelites.  Ahaz was apostate.  He worshiped the crude and evil Canaanite deities.  He even went so far as to sacrifice his first son to Molech.

He is faithless but God nevertheless sends the prophet Isaiah to speak to him.  Ahaz erroneously assumed that because he does not worship God, he cannot expect God to help him against his enemies (failing to consider that God might love His people and want them saved, despite their king’s disbelief.).

Isaiah meets him at the source of Jerusalem’s water supply, and also where clothing was washed clean, and informs him that God will not abandon him or Judah.  God tells him, through His prophet Isaiah, that he can even ask for a sign that will indicate that this promise is true.

Ahaz acts pious (v.12)–>Far be it from me to ask God for a sign…I would never test God like that!  He is in a national emergency, but He doesn’t trust God to help him–even given this very trustworthy prophet.  Notice the symbols included in the narrative:  They meet at the access to Jerusalem’s living (flowing) water (an image of Christ from John 4); it is a place where the unclean are made clean; and Isaiah is accompanied by his son, Shear-Jashub (whose name means a remnant will return, thus indicating a future of Judah and Jerusalem). 

Ahaz is looking to the current crisis, but the prophet predicts a long-term solution, Jesus:  He will be born to a virgin; He will be born a son; He will be Immanuel, God with us;  He will eat yogurt (curds) and honey, the food of poor people (available during drought or years of poor agricultural yield); By the time He is 11 or 12YO, the age of reason, the kings Ahaz fears will have been taken over and deported by the Assyrians.  Scholars believe there was probably an Israelite princess then, in Ahaz’ time, who would marry and give birth to a son—proving the near fulfillment of the prophesy.  But, in the longer view, we know this predicted child is Jesus.

B. This ancient story is a clear set up for our Gospel, Matthew 1:18-25.  Matthew relates the tale from the perspective of Joseph.  Contrast Joseph’s trust in God with Ahaz’s lack thereof:  He has learned that Mary is pregnant.

Instead of demanding that she be stoned, as he could have, he (v.19)…was a righteous man [who] did not want to expose her to public disgrace, decides to quietly divorce her.  He loved her and he loved God.  God sends him a dream in which he learns from the Angel Gabriel (v.20]–>Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.  She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.  Unlike King Ahaz, Joseph is a man of God and so he believes the angel and is obedient.  He marries Mary and cares for her.  He does not consummate the marriage until after the baby was born.  And he does name the baby Jesus.

What a fabulous segway for Matthew!  Matthew is the Gospeler to the Jews, whose goal was to demonstrate to them how Jesus fulfills the prophesies about the Messiah from the Old Testament.  Immediately he refers to our Isaiah lesson (vv.22-23)–>ll this took place to fulfill what the Lord has said through the prophet:  The virgin will be with child and will give birth to son and they will call him Immanuel, which means, “God with us.”                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            

The New Testament scholar and Anglican Bishop, NT Wright, claims that until Matthew wrote his Gospel, no one had ever thought of this Isaiah passage as referring to the promised Messiah.  But under the guidance of the Holy Spirit, Matthew did. Matthew, in our Gospel passage, attests to the supernatural origin of Jesus.

Jesus is both human (born of Mary) and divine (born of the Holy Spirit).  In Jesus, God Himself is here, God Himself is with us.

(NT Wright, Matthew for Everyone, John Knox Press, 2004, p.7.)

John Ortberg, a Presbyterian pastor and author, writes in his book, God is Closer Than You Think, (Zondervan, 2005, p. 16):  The central promise in the Bible is not, “I will forgive you,” though of course that promise is there.  It is not the promise of life after death, although we are offered that as well.  The most frequent promise in the Bible is “I will be with you.”  This promise is spoken in Scripture over and over again.  Abraham, Jacob, Joseph, Moses, Joshua, King David, the prophets, the Virgin Mary, and the Righteous Joseph all heard the comfort and the promise:  Don’t be afraid, I am with you.  Ahaz was afraid and mistrusted God’s promise to him, God’s sign to him.  He did not love or trust God.  He did align with Assyria against his northern enemies; but, in 722BC, the Assyrians overran Syria and Israel, and made of Jerusalem a vassal state. 

These Scripture passages demand that we think long and hard about Who we trust and love.  They contrast Ahaz’ unbelief with the faith of Joseph:  Joseph too was afraid, but God told him not to be and he was reassured.  In fact, God made him the same promise he had made to the old, idolatrous king:  “The Child will be a sign, Immanuel, God with us.”

We have the same choice as Ahaz and as Joseph:  In Whom do we trust and love?  In our own devices, our own schemes to save ourselves?  Or in the God of love?  In Immanuel, the One who promises to be with us, no matter our stresses, trials, illnesses, or difficulties. 

Our King and Savior now draws near.  Come, let us adore Him.

©️2025 Rev. Dr. Sherry Adams

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Without Regrets!

Pastor Sherry’s message for September 28, 2025

Scriptures: Jer 32:1-15; Ps 91; 1 Tim 6:6-19; Lk: 16:19-31

Before I begin this morning, I want to apologize to you for a mistake I made last Sunday. I really do my best to be sure what I preach and teach from Scripture is accurate and supported by the scholarship of noted Christian authorities in whom I trust. But last Sunday I wasn’t paying proper attention to the names of the two men in Jesus’ parable. I erroneously stated that the rich man was Lazarus and the poor man was Dives, when the opposite is true! The word divies means rich man in the original Greek of the New Testament. So that guy is really unnamed by Jesus—we just know him by his position, by his wealthy life style. And the poor man is named Lazarus (a possible clue that he is valued more by Jesus than the other guy?). Again I apologize for the mistake (I never claimed to be perfect, just forgiven!)

Unlike Jesus’ good friend, Lazarus, who He raised from the dead, and who was well off financially, this Lazarus was a poor, sick beggar. However, the two men were similar in that they were righteous believers in God. So the poor beggar finds himself in Paradise while the rich, entitled, godless Dives finds himself in Hades or Hell. Dives lived a life sold out to money;

In Jesus’ parable, Dives becomes the beggar—though with an arrogant attitude—while Lazarus has become the rich man.

(J. Vernon McGee, Through the Bible Commentary on Luke, Thomas Nelson, 1991, p.207.)

Do you think Dives regretted the ungodly way he lived his life? It seems pretty clear that he did. He’s living in torment and is desperate for a drop of water. If we don’t want what is happening to him to happen to us, we need to live our lives—beginning today if not before this—without regrets.

Our passages today suggest how we might accomplish this:

A. Both the Gospel passage (Luke 16:19-31) and Paul’s admonitions to Timothy (1 Timothy 6:6-19) warn us not to be tempted by the love of money. Focusing our thoughts and efforts on money will squeeze out or replace our single-minded devotion to God. Paul states in verse 10 (NLT) For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. It may or can make life easier this side of eternity, but it doesn’t really satisfy. Being wealthy doesn’t guarantee us good health or gratifying relationships. What does ultimately satisfy is what Paul exhorts Timothy to do in verse 11—Pursue righteousness and a godly life, along with faith, love, perseverance, and gentleness. By righteousness and godly living, he means live a life pleasing to God. Remember the “WWJD” bracelets from the 1990’s? If we would think before acting, “What would Jesus do?” we would find ourselves on the right track.  By then listing faith, love, perseverance, and gentleness, he is saying live a life that demonstrates the fruit of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22—…love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control).

Paul goes on to urge young Pastor Timothy to (verses 17-19)—Teach those who are rich in this world not to be proud and not to trust in their money, which is so unreliable. Their trust should be in God, Who rightly gives us all we need for our enjoyment. Tell them to use their money to do good. They should be rich in good works and generous to those in need, always being ready to share with others. By doing this they will be storing up their treasure as a good foundation for the future so that they may experience true life. In other words, it’s not having money that is the problem for us humans. The problem is do we spend our resources on just doing for ourselves—better and grander homes, better and grander vacations, more extravagant clothing, vehicles, toys and entertainments—or do we see the needs of others and give to them generously from our extra?  I participated in a weekly Bible Study small group for 5 years while I was in seminary. One couple in the group included a physician whose spouse invented and sold medical equipment. They were very wealthy. I wondered as we studied this very passage how they did not feel condemned. It was because they generously funded a number of charitable concerns.

Jesus tells us Dives lived in luxury, while Lazarus lay at Dives’ gates, a sick beggar, hoping for crumbs from Dives’ table. Apparently Dives knew of him but never offered to help him. He could have offered him medical treatment, but he didn’t. He could have provided him some “take out” from his table, but he didn’t. Dives was selfish and self-focused. His love of money blinded him to the needs of others. He did not love God. He did not love others. No wonder he found himself in the bad place, enduring eternal regrets! As I said last Sunday, this is not where we want to find ourselves.

B. Psalm 91 is extraordinarily comforting, isn’t it? Iff (this is an indicator of an important “if” clause) we (v.1)— live in the shelter of the Most High…and iff (v.2)—[God] alone is my refuge, my place of safety…my God, and I trust Him…Then (v.3)—…He will rescue you from every trap and protect you from deadly disease.  He protects those who trust in Him. We who do trust in Him are protected from enemies, disease, the wicked, and fear…because He assigns His angels to watch over us. Friday I talked to someone who had prayed—like I did—for God’s protection over their home during the worst of our three hurricanes last year. As with me, trees were blown over all around them, but none fell on their house or car. I prayed for safety from 11:00pm until 2:00am (the time the hurricane was raging over my neighborhood)—and even heard the sound of a tornado (striking the chimney of a neighbor 2 houses away), but my home stayed safe. I had a pastor friend who lived in a coastal Mississippi town during Hurricane Katrina. Her home was the only one left standing in her neighborhood. She told me she was embarrassed before her neighbors. I replied that her home was a monument/an Ebenezer to the goodness of God to those who love Him. Hers is an example of the safety that this psalm speaks of. This is the result of our faith in a God who keeps His promises.

In verse 14, the psalmist writes—The Lord says “I will rescue those who love Me. I will protect those who trust in My name.” If you can say this and believe it, God holds you in the palm of His hand.

Truly trusting in God is a way to live life without regrets.

C. But you may point to our Old Testament lesson (Jeremiah 32:1-15) and say, “But what about them?” As we tune into the prophet, the year is 587 BC and Jerusalem is under siege by the Babylonians. For over 30 months, their army starved the city into surrender and then swept in through the broken down walls and gates, overcoming any remaining opposition. They destroyed the Temple of God. They set fire to the city. They slaughtered the old and the infirm, and carried off most of the rest into slavery in Babylon. The godless king, Zedekiah, escaped but was captured by Nebuchadnezzar in Jericho. He was forced to watch all his sons put to the sword; and then he was blinded and led off to Babylon.

Prior to this, Jeremiah had been imprisoned by the heretical king, because Zedekiah hated hearing the prophet’s accurate predictions of Jerusalem’s coming defeat. I wonder if he regretted having blown off Jeremiah’s warnings. 

Curiously, in the midst of the siege, God tells Jeremiah to buy property in his hometown, Anathoth. Doesn’t it seem strange to buy property—a sign of hope in the future—in the midst of wartime and defeat? But God is thereby saying to Jeremiah and the people of the Southern Kingdom that “this too shall pass.” Have you ever said this to yourself? I have. My mother died just before my comprehensive exams, tests over every class I had taken in my doctoral program. I was grieving as I had to dedicate time to study, but consoled myself saying, “This too shall pass.” I did the same while undergoing childbirth, surgeries, and other painful things—and so can you! The Lord is intimating, through this real estate transaction, that His chastened people, cleansed of idolatry, will return to the Land. And 70 years later, the king of Persia, Cyrus, frees them to return and to rebuild Jerusalem. Of course, Jeremiah has long since perished, but God’s restoration of His people came to pass. The point is that our God redeems His people. He may discipline us, but we can hope in the future because of His love for us.

Let’s have no regrets!  Let’s choose to live our lives in such a way that we please our all-powerful, loving and grace-filled God. The psychologist Erik Erikson postulated that we are presented with a series of developmental stages as we progress through life. He believed we are confronted with a crisis at each stage that we must master in order to enjoy good mental health thereafter. The first one, at about age 2, is “Trust vs. Mistrust”. By that point have we learned to trust others or not? If not, we will be emotionally crippled as we move through the remainder of our life. Interestingly, he named the final stage before death, “Integrity v. Despair.” To be emotionally healthy in old age, we need to be able to look back over our life and decide that despite our flaws, we actually did the best we could. In other words, we can say we have few regrets. Those who, like Dives, see a number of instances where we made fatal mistakes will find ourselves in despair. Let’s determine now, today, to live so that we die without regrets.

©️2025 Rev. Dr. Sherry Adams